To all my wonderful readers,
It is hard to believe the eight months has just about come and gone. It has been truly an unforgettable experience. I'd thank you all for your support before, during and hopefully after this experience.
I will be honest that as much as I am excited to come home in a month's time (I am doing a euro trip prior to returning home) I am as well incredibly nervous. A lot has changed in my life and I am anxious to see how it translates back home and what life has in store for me next. I know whatever it is it will be great but I may need a bit of time to readjust.
I've been thinking about how I wanted to end off this blog for a while because there is a whole trip to sum up. I then thought about what I would say to myself eight months ago and I came up with an idea of making a letter that I wished I had received eight months ago advising me on life here in Ghana.
October 2015
Dear Kurtis,
It is hard to believe the eight months has just about come and gone. It has been truly an unforgettable experience. I'd thank you all for your support before, during and hopefully after this experience.
I will be honest that as much as I am excited to come home in a month's time (I am doing a euro trip prior to returning home) I am as well incredibly nervous. A lot has changed in my life and I am anxious to see how it translates back home and what life has in store for me next. I know whatever it is it will be great but I may need a bit of time to readjust.
I've been thinking about how I wanted to end off this blog for a while because there is a whole trip to sum up. I then thought about what I would say to myself eight months ago and I came up with an idea of making a letter that I wished I had received eight months ago advising me on life here in Ghana.
October 2015
Dear Kurtis,
I know that it may be tough to think about the next eight months when the Blue Jays are still in the playoffs, the Liberals have won the election and you just spent an amazing weekend with friends and family celebrating Kev's birthday; however, I need you to pay attention for a few minutes because you are about to walk into something, by going to Ghana, that you honestly have no idea about, even though you'd like to believe you do. You have heard bits of information about Ghana and how it hosts some of the friendliest people in all of Africa. You were also informed that Ghana is the golden child of all of West Africa and is "Africa for beginners". A big first piece of advice- Don't put so much trust into anything you learn before coming. While based on reality, articles and videos can only tell you very little about life here.
Looking back today, I feel it is important to tell you that you make it throughout your entire eight month adventure in Ghana! It is an accomplishment and an undertaking like you have never done before. While I do not want to spoil too much for you, let me explain a general outline of the things to come.
What you hope to do is to make a difference and to try and understand the realities of African livelihood. You set out to Ghana from Brussels on a Wednesday morning where you, while on the plane, have your first realization, while looking around you, that things are about to get very different. You arrive to Accra clean cut, skin as pale as a ghost and a smile that tells people that you think that eight months is going to pass by as quick as a finger snap.
Looking back on the trip I will admit it feels partly like that now; however, this trip was far from being a walk in the park.
Fast forward a month later when you are about to leave Accra and move to your new home Tamale (sorry to spoil the surprise). The first month brings many twists and turns, including living life in the loudest neighbourhood you may ever live in (thank the consistent line of funerals for that), your first experiences with electricity rationing (aka dumsor) and your first month ever living somewhere where you are a visible minority. You will still be in good spirits as the project seems to be moving forward and the road ahead seem bright. Still adjusting to the living in Ghana, you will move to a place which is considered off the traveled path. This is when the real challenge begins.
I cannot express to you enough that living in Tamale is not an immediate love but an acquired taste. Your first three months, while you are open to new opportunities, will not go the way you wish and this takes its toll on you quite a bit. The culture becomes difficult to deal with, life outside of work is the complete opposite to what you are used to and you feel every week that you finished it as a failure. Some days, you will live through the travel horror stories many have told you about before. Other days, you will question why you ever came to Ghana at all. You will deal with heartache, anger, emptiness, sadness, confusion and so many other emotions at the same time. Some emotions that you will feel are for the first time in years. It is not your or anyone else's fault that you feel these things but it is just life. It is just reality and the quicker you accept that the easier it gets.
There will come a point in time where, with one click of a mouse, the trip will be over. You believe that it will be for the best to leave. Don't let your trip end there. Believe me, from where I sit now, I promise you that it will be one of the biggest regrets you will ever make.
There will come a point in time where, with one click of a mouse, the trip will be over. You believe that it will be for the best to leave. Don't let your trip end there. Believe me, from where I sit now, I promise you that it will be one of the biggest regrets you will ever make.
From that point on your trip changes. You begin to meet and get to know many one of a kind individuals. Silent nights turn into unforgettable memories. The hub opens and you begin to work one-on-one with Ghanaian youth to help to a better future. You will travel to all ends of the country and, before you know it, Ghana begins to grow on you. As your trip draws closer and closer to an end, you begin to wonder how the first four months got away from you.
As I sit here today, I thought I'd share with you one last thing before I head out. I am down to my last day in Tamale. Below are two pictures. The first of course is the person you came as when you arrived to Ghana and the second is the person you are leaving as (I forgot to mention earlier about the beard- Definitely a good decision) . You body will change massively- You will lose all your muscle and gain weight. You will be darker and look older than you'll ever have before; however, be proud of this new you because this person is leaving Ghana happy. There's always time when you get home to get back in shape. There's always time to try and look younger or fix all the things that you want to be changed. Forget these things. Through hardship and struggle, you do something incredible... You find a way to be happy and at peace.
In June 2015, you had just dropped you masters and was clueless where life was going to take you. I can tell you now, prior to hopping on that plane out of Sarnia, that your life is about to dramatically change forever. The man you will become is much different than the boy you are arriving as. Beginning to truly understand what it means to live a life in poverty, while you live nowhere near as tough as the average Ghanaian, impacts you to the core of your heart. The everyday struggle of completing tasks which are simpler back home teaches you to be even more humble and grateful for being a Canadian. Your dream will be fulfilled Kurtis of living in Africa. I can't promise you that it will be easy but it will 100 percent be worth the sweat, stress, anger, and tears that will come because of it.
Keep your head up always and the best of luck you.